Sometimes it is very difficult to understand the man and woman relations. Many marriages break up because of incomplete understanding of the relationship of one or both partners. Although only one of them realized the nature of man and woman relationship, the marriage will reinforce it in some way. Also, when men and women in a relationship for more marriage, their last happy relationship has the best chance for a long time.
The firstthing to realize the couple relationship is to understand how difference between the men and women. These different aspects can be something physically, mentally and emotionally.
For example, men and women approach the questions very differently when facing with challenges. Women tend to open their hearts and discuss the problem with other people such as family and friends. They would like to obtain advice and feedback from others. So it is common that women can spend quite a lot of time on just talking the problem. Through sharing and talking, women often get the solution for their problems by exploring the different points of views and their feelings.
On the other hands, men tend to deal with problems in an analytic way. They prefer thinking over the issue rather than talking about it. It is therefore common for men to act silently in a state of consideration and pondering.
The different ways in approaching challenges in a relationship between men and women can sometimes cause a problem, because misunderstanding often occurs. For example, men might feel women should try to fix the problems rather than just keep talking about them, while the women might think men are not worried about anything because men are not talking about it. However, in reality men might have been thinking of concerns on their mind but just not speak out.
For women, they can actually talk about many things that they indeed do not need any help or advice. They just want to share their concerns and feelings, while for men, they normally look for answers by talking about something with other people.
If women share something with others, they basically want to get it out and then seek support and understanding from others, instead of looking for want to do. They create the conversation in a loving and understanding way. On the other hands, men would try to tell the women what need to be done by providing solutions. In general men want to be helpful and practical. But from the views of women, they do not feel men are sincerely listening and instead just want to finish the conversation. It does not mean however all men and women behave like this but majority of people follow these patterns.
Understanding the difference between men and women in the ways of communication can help you realize what your partner's need is and act accordingly. Your husband and wife relationship will be much strengthened.
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